To wear this Kendra Scott cross pendant necklace, simply open the lobster clasp and attach it around your neck. It's perfect for everyday wear, adding a touch of meaning to your outfit. As for maintenance, avoid contact with harsh chemicals like perfume or cleaning agents as they may damage the 14k gold plating. You can gently clean it with a soft, dry cloth. Keep in mind that because of the unique nature of the materials, the colors and patterns may vary a bit from the picture you saw. So, enjoy your beautiful and meaningful necklace, and take good care of it!